tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post1859190663466326395..comments2023-11-03T08:36:37.802+00:00Comments on The Blog: Suzy PeachesAramidehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06903734169544640142noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-71513433988184543592007-05-22T23:37:00.000+00:002007-05-22T23:37:00.000+00:00In my opinion love is an emotion, which must be re...In my opinion love is an emotion, which must be reached (or felt) by making the right decision. In this day and age you can’t follow your heart all the way in not you will fall in the gutter and hit your head. But you cant always chose whom not to love…. If you can control whether or not you love someone (especially as he hasn’t trampled on your heart) then maybe you don’t really LOVE him. Thinking about it carefully I think love is a misused, we attach the term to every emotion (aside hatred) we feel towards the opposite sex, and so long this fallacy exists, love is both an emotion and a decision (as the case may be). Kai but when u ‘love’ a guy, even if he falls short of your ‘must’ you overlook all that. On this note I shut up cos the topic is as intricate and confusing as I sound.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-21629080845451129312007-05-18T20:23:00.000+00:002007-05-18T20:23:00.000+00:00Yep I agree with u Suzy Peaches...welcome bk to yo...Yep I agree with u Suzy Peaches...welcome bk to you and Mona.Thought you guys had disappeared from blogville...lol.. Love is a decision....'cos if it's based on emotions, it'll definitely fizzle..cos what happens to the not so good days.Life is a rollercoaster so can't do things solely on how u feel...On the flipside however,abt not deciding to love someone...it's possible but hard 'cos emotions now have a part to play right so only strong-minded people can do this.<BR/>Bottom-line is you need the balance of both:Emotion and Rationality. You shd be rational enuff to see when somethin isn't workin/isn't permissible & be able to let go....u also shd be emotional enuff to kno when a person is just human and none of us is perfect so you shd let go of some things..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-86494819960366745922007-05-18T10:24:00.000+00:002007-05-18T10:24:00.000+00:00Love is first of all,a decision...then emotion get...Love is first of all,a decision...then emotion gets entangled with it...great post SP...glad to hav u back...now drag Mona back too!!!Naija Vixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04302276568304358530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-64676269537100473912007-05-17T22:55:00.000+00:002007-05-17T22:55:00.000+00:00You can read the full excerpt of bell hooks discus...You can read the full excerpt of bell hooks discussion on love here. It is quite interesting<BR/><BR/>http://countsky.blogspot.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-19878458882656880632007-05-17T22:47:00.000+00:002007-05-17T22:47:00.000+00:00I think we decide who we love and I think love is ...I think we decide who we love and I think love is more than an emotion love are our actions.<BR/><BR/>Bell Hooks the African American, professor, author and poet said:<BR/><BR/>"most of us think of love as having to do with feelings of attraction to someone and whether or not we feel happy with that person. But love is really more of an interactive process. It's about what we do, not just what we feel. It's a verb, not a noun. So many people think that it's enough to say what they feel even if their actions do not correspond to what they are saying."<BR/><BR/>:Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-24800523371044947132007-05-17T18:31:00.000+00:002007-05-17T18:31:00.000+00:00I agree with you, love is a choice, we unconscious...I agree with you, love is a choice, we unconscious/ consciously pick we fall in love with. Nice post by the way!Biodunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01719021200012616161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-15149625426811105902007-05-17T16:59:00.000+00:002007-05-17T16:59:00.000+00:00In typical Chichi fashion, love is life and life i...In typical Chichi fashion, love is life and life is love. Life is what you make it and therefore, love is what you make it.<BR/><BR/>In regular, everybody "I'm suddenly an expert in all fields" type of way, it's both! You DECIDE who you want to love and then channel all your EMOTIONS towards them. I mean, deciding to love someone doesn't mean they will make the same decision. Trust me. I know!Don Chi as Blog Marley a.k.a. El Senor Supremohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05399156887960313959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23157593.post-62825424051572570002007-05-17T16:07:00.000+00:002007-05-17T16:07:00.000+00:00Hmm!!!! i seeHmm!!!! i seeDimpleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09698547238590338080noreply@blogger.com